I don't know what title should i have for this post.In the end no matter what happens reality still have to be in COUNT. It still matters. Whatever i do i actually have to consider the reality. At the end instead of resigning i ask for a transfer. It should be a good thing for me. So far to the ones i told they are totally happy bout it. I even get the " Oh!! man... it's about time for you to stop being her dog!! I'm happy for you"' Well, That's a good start. LoL..... I really hope this would turns out well. This is the only solution that when i "place it" it fits all the blanks. Thought it's not really what i want but i guess i have to make it work. Fingers crossed!!!